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But just because I’m Asian and female, why do some men make the automatic assumptions that I am quiet, docile, great at domestic tasks, eager to please men and that my vagina is more magical than average?
For instance, it is true that I tend to be drawn to well-dressed men who are taller than me, but I don’t assume anything about them besides the fact that they are well-dressed and taller.
A few years ago, the documentary , which offers discussions about Yellow Fever — an uncontrollable desire for Asians that is so powerful that having it is comparable to contracting an illness — and racial fetishes, whereby people choose partners solely on the basis of , race.
I recoiled as I watched multiple men offer such insane generalizations about Asian women, such as “Asian females are willing to listen, willing to adapt, willing to accept what the guy says.” In my mind, though, these are sleazy, incompetent guys I’ll never interact with.
Racial pickup lines such as “Konichiwa, Hello Kitty! A while back, a Tumblr called “Creepy White Guys” with screencaps of real messages received by Asian women from men on Ok Cupid rose to mainstream fame with Buzz Feed coverage.
I don’t think it’s fair to make it sound like only Caucasian men are this lame, but those particular comments definitely earn a high spot on my list of “Most Racist Things I’ve Seen This Decade.” I cannot comprehend what makes men choose to say things like “Unlike white women, [Asian] women remember what it’s like to be a woman: to be docile and submissive and respectful to a man.” This is how they woo the ladies they’re presumably fond of?!
After dating her for a few weeks, you meet her friends for the first time.