Because what we have is your fucking Lloyd Doblers who are still pursuing a woman in the way that society says you should be pursuing a woman, but also is not obeying any of the niceties or mores or conventions that have made that socially permissible for generations.
So it's like a rogue agent, who's both pursuing women and follows no norms.
Griffin: I feel like a lot of what's championed as modern-man-in-the-dating-world behavior is not conducive to actually being a fucking adult about things.
How you treat other people is the defining characteristic of adulthood.Don't do that, because it's embarrassing, and it's lame.Justin: Our generation has gotten probably the worst messages about romance of almost any generation that didn't include human sacrifice.Travis: The idea of all of those artifice things, like, "I'm going to wait three days," or "I'm going to neg." Those are all things you do because you don't have self-confidence and you're trying to hide behind these walls of not needing to think about what to do because someone told me what to do because it's scary to just be myself. Now I wish I could go back in time to 20-year-old Travis and say, "Just talk to them.